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This woman wrote a superb response to a Tinder date who said he'd marry her if she was slimmer
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A WOMAN WHO received a callous note from a Tinder date telling her that he couldn’t go out with her because she wasn’t slim enough has penned the perfect response online.
Michelle Thomas went on a date last week with a man and described the experience on her blog as a “fairly standard Pleasant Evening”.
The next day, however, she received a note from her date explaining that, whilst he had a good time, he couldn’t go out with her again.
He continued by explaining that he was “turned on” by her personality, but not by her figure.
“Slip of a girl.”
Wow.
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In response, Thomas took to her blog to pen a rather excellent response and shut the guy down.
After conceding that the message briefly worked and “stirred a dormant fear” that she was undesirable, she explained that she was perfectly happy how she was.
And asked if this was the reason he targeted her.
Thomas stated that, while she may be overweight, she still has the right to “love and enjoy” her body as it is.
And implored the man — a father of a teenage daughter — to cop himself on and encourage his daughter to “develop a bomb-proof sense of self-esteem” so she, too, can deal with “small, unhappy men” in the future.
She then ended the letter with this sublime sign-off.
Hero.
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