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Here's why you should stop worrying about wearing 'flattering' clothes
WE’VE ALL READ about what clothes are “flattering” to your figure.
In this context, the term “flattering” typically applies to clothes that will make the woman look, well, slimmer.
Magazines will tell you that “pear-shaped” (ugh) women should opt for A-line skirts, while “curvy” women (double ugh) should go for pencil skirts.
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But lately, there has been a degree of backlash to the term “flattering” and indeed all the fashion rules women are supposed to abide by.
For one thing, many women feel that the term teaches women that being slim is the only way to be beautiful.
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Many of these “flattering” outfits are designed to hide or disguise women’s bodies. And as Mary Danielson Perry writes for Curvy Sewing Collective, fashion should be about accentuating or celebrating one’s assets as opposed to covering them up.
And besides, who decides what is and isn’t flattering?
Buzzfeed writer Kristen Chirico conducted an experiment in which she asked stylists to dress her in “flattering outfits” for her body. (Chirico is a size 16.)
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And unsurprisingly, none of the stylists could agree on what was “flattering” for her body. Instead, she was dressed in everything from culottes to dowdy Mam jumpers.
Her conclusion? The term “flattering” is pretty much nonsense.
In other words, you should disregard whatever society tells you is “flattering” for your body, because fashion and style are completely subjective.
All that matters is that you feel good with what you’re wearing.
If you want to wear high-waisted jeans, go for it. If you don’t feel comfortable wearing a crop top, ignore that trend and go for something you do like.
Either way, don’t feel obliged to conform to whatever is considered “flattering” for your body shape.
As Into Mind writes…
PREACH.
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